When Breastfeeding Isn’t Going to Plan

Breastfeeding can be a beautiful bonding experience, but it’s not always easy. For many parents, things don’t go as expected. Pain, latching troubles, or constant second-guessing can leave you feeling overwhelmed.

If that sounds familiar, know this: you’re not alone, and support is available. An International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) is a trained expert who can help you navigate challenges and feel more confident about feeding your baby.

What is an IBCLC?

An IBCLC is a health professional who specialises in breastfeeding care. They have undergone rigorous training and certification to provide evidence-based support for all kinds of feeding concerns. Whether you’re just starting out, combination feeding, or navigating supply issues, an IBCLC brings expert knowledge and calm, compassionate care.

Common Breastfeeding Challenges IBCLCs Support

You might consider reaching out to an IBCLC if you’re dealing with:

• Painful latch or sore nipples

• Concerns about milk supply (too much or too little)

• Trouble with positioning and attachment

• Expressing and storing breastmilk

• Feeding twins or premature babies

• Suspected tongue-tie or oral issues

• Planning to return to work while breastfeeding

These challenges are common, but they don’t have to be endured alone. A lactation consultant can help you get to the root of the issue and work with you to find realistic, personalised solutions.

Face-to-Face vs Virtual Support

Seeing a lactation consultant face-to-face is often ideal, especially in the early days. They can observe a feed, support your positioning, and assess any physical factors like baby’s mouth or your milk flow.

However, if travel or timing makes in-person support tricky, many IBCLCs also offer virtual consults. With a video call, they can still watch a feed, offer real-time advice, and guide you step-by-step through any issues.

How to Find an IBCLC Near You

You can find a qualified lactation consultant through the Lactation Consultants of Australia and New Zealand (LCANZ) directory. This ensures you’re connecting with someone who meets professional standards and is certified to support you.

You can also:

• Ask your midwife or GP for a referral

• Check your local early parenting service or council

• Contact the Australian Breastfeeding Association for additional support

Final Thoughts

If breastfeeding isn’t going to plan, you don’t have to struggle through it. Getting the right help early can make all the difference. IBCLCs offer expert, non-judgemental care that meets you where you are - whether that’s at home, in a clinic, or online.

At Mini + Me, we believe every family deserves trusted support. Explore more resources or speak to an expert to help you feel more confident and supported on your feeding journey.